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# Navigating Polarities: Using Both/And Thinking to Lead Transformation

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Review: Elegant, Practical and Simple - A Step-by-Step Guide Packed with Gems (Polarities 2.0) - I have two other books on my shelf on the topic of polarities and have been unable “get through” them. It seemed as if they were making a simple concept more complicated than it needed to be – at least to me, the average reader. Navigating Polarities is different. Emerson and Lewis have simplified a more complex process. I read it cover to cover and couldn’t put it down. Building on the model of Johnson, they make several enhancements. The first of these is to replace the infinity loop with what they call the “Third Way”, taken from the work of Richard Rohr. The authors point out that the loop can create an unintended pendulum effect from one pole to the next in an attempt to get the benefits or upsides of both poles. I have personally found this to be true in using the old framework. The Third Way is genius because it creates something new as opposed to some sort of balancing act. Instead of shifting from one set of behaviors to another and back again in a dynamic flow (as the old model suggests), the Third Way suggests that you grow into something that requires bigger capacity, more risk and more compassion. In this way it is truly developmental. Emerson and Lewis provide a map and a set of guidelines for identifying and naming both the Third Way and the vulnerability required to stand in it. It’s a full-on subject-object move. We are also introduced to the delightful concept of “standing in our diagonal”. This is where we identify (or over identify) with the upside of our preferred pole and dis-identify (or villainize) the down side of the other. It was so great to read this, because I come across this with clients all the time. What I often hear is “don’t ask me to become that”(where that = Not Me). The beauty about the Emerson and Lewis process is that we don’t ask clients to become “that” (the thing they don’t like). Instead, we ask them to name and stand in a Third Way. This can be a great relief to many people. It is also another subject-object move that supports a sort of softening to the Other and a Melting of Fears. The last piece that is invaluable is the inclusion of a “strategies” section of the map. This really supports immediate action and sustainability over time. What makes the book so readable is that the authors take you through step by step of how to do the work- both with individuals and with groups. It’s all very clearly laid out. I felt as if Emmerson and Lewis were giving away the secret sauce. If that was their goal, they certainly succeeded. What a gift.
Review: It takes more than solving problems - I could title this “Please read this book “ because it’s that useful. So often we fall into a trap of either/or thinking that leads to unsatisfying and temporary solutions when what is more helpful in “both/and” thinking and deep, curiosity filled dialogue. If you are a leader or aspire to lead this book can help you facilitate meaningful change. Oh, and please do read this book.

## Technical Specifications

| Specification | Value |
|---------------|-------|
| Best Sellers Rank | #117,597 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #64 in Business & Organizational Learning #1,261 in Leadership & Motivation |
| Book 1 of 1  | Navigating Polarities |
| Customer Reviews | 4.7 4.7 out of 5 stars (139) |
| Dimensions  | 5.5 x 0.42 x 8.5 inches |
| ISBN-10  | 1733382836 |
| ISBN-13  | 978-1733382830 |
| Item Weight  | 7.7 ounces |
| Language  | English |
| Print length  | 184 pages |
| Publication date  | October 15, 2019 |
| Publisher  | Paradoxical Press |

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## Customer Reviews

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Elegant, Practical and Simple - A Step-by-Step Guide Packed with Gems (Polarities 2.0)
*by B***Y on January 4, 2020*

I have two other books on my shelf on the topic of polarities and have been unable “get through” them. It seemed as if they were making a simple concept more complicated than it needed to be – at least to me, the average reader. Navigating Polarities is different. Emerson and Lewis have simplified a more complex process. I read it cover to cover and couldn’t put it down. Building on the model of Johnson, they make several enhancements. The first of these is to replace the infinity loop with what they call the “Third Way”, taken from the work of Richard Rohr. The authors point out that the loop can create an unintended pendulum effect from one pole to the next in an attempt to get the benefits or upsides of both poles. I have personally found this to be true in using the old framework. The Third Way is genius because it creates something new as opposed to some sort of balancing act. Instead of shifting from one set of behaviors to another and back again in a dynamic flow (as the old model suggests), the Third Way suggests that you grow into something that requires bigger capacity, more risk and more compassion. In this way it is truly developmental. Emerson and Lewis provide a map and a set of guidelines for identifying and naming both the Third Way and the vulnerability required to stand in it. It’s a full-on subject-object move. We are also introduced to the delightful concept of “standing in our diagonal”. This is where we identify (or over identify) with the upside of our preferred pole and dis-identify (or villainize) the down side of the other. It was so great to read this, because I come across this with clients all the time. What I often hear is “don’t ask me to become that”(where that = Not Me). The beauty about the Emerson and Lewis process is that we don’t ask clients to become “that” (the thing they don’t like). Instead, we ask them to name and stand in a Third Way. This can be a great relief to many people. It is also another subject-object move that supports a sort of softening to the Other and a Melting of Fears. The last piece that is invaluable is the inclusion of a “strategies” section of the map. This really supports immediate action and sustainability over time. What makes the book so readable is that the authors take you through step by step of how to do the work- both with individuals and with groups. It’s all very clearly laid out. I felt as if Emmerson and Lewis were giving away the secret sauce. If that was their goal, they certainly succeeded. What a gift.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ It takes more than solving problems
*by D***H on May 12, 2024*

I could title this “Please read this book “ because it’s that useful. So often we fall into a trap of either/or thinking that leads to unsatisfying and temporary solutions when what is more helpful in “both/and” thinking and deep, curiosity filled dialogue. If you are a leader or aspire to lead this book can help you facilitate meaningful change. Oh, and please do read this book.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Powerful!
*by M***M on January 20, 2020*

Kelly and Brian completely cracked the code on presenting polarities so that the world can better understand polarities' grand context, their nuance, their inner workings, and their power to liberate. Brava!! In several cases during the reading, I sharpened distinctions that i didn't realize required sharpening (knowing::learning?) - awesome when that happens! The whole contextual piece of suffering paradox presents a very compelling 'why' and makes this work so much more powerful. Finally, I love that, and how, the authors brought heart into the treatment of polarities. This book is a treasured resource as an introduction and a how-to guide, and it serves as a sage for anyone wanting to deepen their appreciation for the power of polarity.

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