How to Get over Anyone in Few Days: Breakups Will Never Hurt Like Before

A helpful book.

Very easy read. Complicated psychological issues have. Been explained in a very easy way. The book is an essential read for anyone going through a breakup or even to understand oneself better!

This book was very helpful. Everyone should buy this book to understand psychology. Language is easy to understand and point to point facts.

Let me start off by saying I NEVER write reviews, even if I extremly like a product so this one has exhausted me of superlatives. This book I bought after looking at a lot of websites, theorising myself, consoling others, taking others advice also, but this book has absolutely widened my perspective on this and believe me I read a lot about love and heartbreak. This is a purely pragmatic and practical approach to heartbreak and I thought the price was steep but I figured let's give something expensive a go. My god, did it pay off, I am so grateful to this author and I genuinely wish I could meet him jn person to thank him. I haven't totally digested everything yet hut the general sense of it has left me feeling good and with a plan ahead and I'm going to try to read it again to solidify the ideas. I'm so so so grateful.

Read this book. I’ve never read a “self-help” book in my life, but at this point in my break-up, I was willing to try anything. After a month of crying every day, feeling sad (for lack of a better term), and going through what felt like excruciating pain, I was ready to try just about anything. Again, I have never read any kind of break-up, self-help book in my life, and it seemed silly to me to even try it because I’ve read a ton of articles about this exact subject, and they all seemed ridiculous or not insightful or helpful at all. I was at the point where I knew I was better off w/o him, I knew I would eventually be okay, I knew I would eventually find someone else, I know all of this…. SO WHY DOES THIS STILL HURT SO BADLY???? I bought the book. It works. Some of the things in the book are things I PROBABLY could have concluded on my own, but I honestly hadn’t yet, and I probably wouldn’t have until a year from now when I’m completely over my ex. That still made it worth it because this book was able to do in a few days what I’ve been trying to do in over a month, and probably wouldn’t have been able to do for several more months (someone said that in a previous review as well). If your pain was anywhere near as intense as mine, and this review helps you buy this book, then I’ve done some good here. If nothing else, to me, it’s even worth the ‘hope’ that it may alleviate what you’re going through. Good luck.

This book promotes "thought-blocking", which seems like a very unhealthy thing to do. You more you resist, the more those thoughts persist. I would be careful of some of the recommendations in this book, it might make your breakup recovery a lot longer than it needs to be,

I became a widow in 2013. Ten months after my husband's death I met what I thought was an amazing man. Everything clicked. After a nine-month relationship I was abruptly dumped! I was devastated. I spent weeks questioning my behavior, trying to pinpoint what I did wrong. This being my first relationship since getting married in 1998 and spending 15 years with my husband, I thought maybe I had just lost my dating/ relationship skills. This book blew it all wide open for me. I've turned a corner and I feel great relief, no longer battling thoughts in regards to this man. I went from being everything to him to being nothing, but now I know why. If anyone purchasing this book was abruptly dumped pay special attention to the segment regarding passionate love versus compassionate love. This was a quick, easy, and informative read. It restored my emotional well-being and stability. I can't thank this author enough!Justine Szot

Definitely a must read for anyone who's had a failed relationship and had their heart broken. It basically explains that when we miss and can't get over someone, it is not them that we actually miss but the good feeling that they made us feel e.g. feeling loved, wanted etc. So this good feeling of love can come from anyone therefore the concept of "the one" is unrealistic as if we meet someone else who can make us feel this way then we will get over the first person. This has made me realised that there isn't just one person for everyone, so if you lose someone, don't worry you'll find someone else.It's got really good content and a much more accurate and realistic portray of love than what we see in hollywood films and novels.There are some typos in the book and the paper is thin and the writing quite small and densed, but it is to the point and it will save you from a prolonged heartbreak.